I felt the same way until I found a bra that fits. The Little Bra Company (
www.thelittlebracompany.com) may have a retailer in your area that you can try on for sizing. Because of the mark up, I buy from TLBC online. I was inspired by seeing this bra fitting and review video:
http://www.frmheadtotoe.com/2010/08/ask ... g-101.html. My younger sister swore she wanted a boob job until I found her the perfect bra. It was the Simona Super Push Up bra from Intimissimi. Unfortunately, this is a European brand that I cannot find in the US.
In comparison, I have the Angela, Lucia, Sascha and Mercedes bras from TLBC and this Super Push Up from Intimissimi has MORE padding than any of those TLBC bras.
http://uk.intimissimi.com/thumbnail/pro ... 3/4875.utsSee if you can find free shipping/return sites online to try out some of their bras. I'm sure that if you find the perfect one, you'll feel like it's worth the money.
Finding the perfect bra made me feel more womanly and grown up since they mold your breast instead of acting merely as a cover-up (training bra).